Saturday, July 30, 2016

Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Christopher Bennetts posted a video on YouTube responding to the accusations of stalking and terrorizing his then girlfriend and father of her child Ruby Bandejas with intimidating tactics, for the purpose of forcing her to abandon the criminal charges she had filled against him earlier. He succeeded.

 Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Christopher Bennetts wanted reply Christopher Bennetts has realized the damages my revelations caused to him and try to come up clean and free of wrong doing. If you listen to the video he scrupulously avoid to pronounce my name as the author of these accusations. Why is that? Me Evan Iliadis have signed every single accusation on him, fearless and straight forward. 

You noticed? Only 235 views in 4 months. Who cares about Christopher Bennetts? Not many but those I wanted to go there and take a look they did.

Who are they?
-Those business people who Christopher Bennetts solicited partnership and involvement on his crooked business. They were there. 

-Social clubs, professional organizations and fraternities  Christopher Bennetts asked for membership. They were there.  

-Only a few of my readers. The story is bit of old news for many, Christopher Bennetts has been labeled the top Peddler in the Philippines lowlife community    he will remain as such for many years to come. Unless he changes his view on our Philippine wives he considered them good only for drinking pee and sperm. 

I haven't renewed this blog in three years, not many visitors lately but looking at the screenshot below it shows far more viewers that 235 in  4 months isn't it?  Keep in mind that this is only one blog out of many your name is "honored" by many thousand of readers. Please, click on the image to enlarge it
Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Why Christopher Bennetts revived this saga after nearly 7 years when first the warrant of arrest surfaced on the net?

I think is because he needs a boost of his profile, the one the pimps peddlers and crooks like being the only ones looking for association with him. 
He believes, that even bad publicity is better than no publicity at all.  
So let's help Chris regain the luster that slowly fading, let's make Chris a cyber star again, let's put a few lines or a few pages from his hey years. He asked for, I'm here for. After all, what friends are for? 

The story about his warrant of arrest he's referring to commence here:

Christopher Bennetts wanted reply
From Christopher Bennetts' for the love of Rex blog  Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Remember this picture? From the blog "for the love of Rex"? I closed that blog, but Chris missed it and want it back. Request granted Chris. After all,what friends are for? 

Readers, bellow is a saved blog written by Christopher Bennetts in 2008 and erased when myself gave some interest on it. 
A lot of garbage folks, killings, drugs, criminal charges, accusations non stop between him, Ruby bandejas, pimps and other lowlife night people living in Cebu. 
I doubt you'll stop by and read one detail after the other. All it takes is a quick scan of the page, voila! You got the picture, now you know Christopher's Bennett's world and why Ruby didn't come to scheduled court appointments and claim her child support money.  

Please note, many of the links Christopher Bennetts created aren't functional he has deleted many of his old blogs.

Christopher Bennetts for the love of Rex

Christopher Bennetts appears in several sites holding this baby claiming is his son with a girl friend named Ruby,that she dumbed him when she had the proof that he's a pedophile, a cruel pornographer specialized on hard core porn movies, humiliating and disgusting. One of his closest friends had to say this:

Thanks to some of the people who know the real truth at living in cebu forum and let me know about this thread. (You can read the rest below or go to the original statement) read Dean Marston's the original statement here. ) "I am being set up by Chris Bennetts and his friends. A lot of people will back me up that the real criminal here is Chris Bennetts.

So please don't believe the black picture that Chis Bennetts is trying to paint of me. Since he had no problem posting my picture and even going as far as paying for that SunStar ad I am going to give everyone information on him so people can know the real truth. Chris Bennetts is the man running pornographic LBFM websites featuring Filipinas, some who are underage.

I have pictures to prove it that he used to post on his mensasiantravelexploits and Angeles Bar websites. (Business information deleted by Paul.) People here in the Philippines are aware on his actions and he was even reported that he and his wife Antonieth ( at the time ) opened a Dance Studio on Mactan Island, Cebu Philippines.

His wife at the time was serious about the studio but Chris had other intentions. Chris did even know he was reported to have been inviting other older men to come and watch the young girls dance in their underwear and was reported to have been taking pictures of the young girls that he proudly showed his friends.

During the day Christopher Bennetts tries to come off as an upstanding businessman and community member, but at night his a demented person who takes advantage of young underage girls. In the last 3 years Christopher Bennetts has become member of the Rotary Club of Mactan and has made a lot of influential friends who are involved in politics who he could use as protection is he is ever investigated.

Chris and I spent a lot of time together and I am 100 percent sure he is part of an international underage pornographic syndicate. Who specialize in making pornographic videos and pictures of young Filipina girls and boys". This, is not an anonymous post, is from some one that knows very well Chris Bennetts. You can read Dean Marston's the original statement here.

Message to Ruby

Thursday, April 9th, 2009
I don’t know how else to reach you other than this site.
I have already said so much on this site and soon I will take it off line
There has been a lot of pain and anger on both sides and we have deeply hurt each other

I have never hated anyone before in my life until Marston and I can honestly say I have never hated you even though I tried to.
I have felt so many different emotions but now I feel only the deepest sadness and regret.

The anger and the hatred have gone.
Marston is a very sad person and I have learnt a lot about him in Australia which I could publish here but it’s time to and end this so that events can take their course as I know they will.

Marston will leave you.   He can read this and affirm even to himself that he will not, but he is like the scorpion that asked the turtle to take him across the river.
When Marston is no longer around I want you to know that you can contact me regarding the support of Rex.

I also hope that one day we have a chance to talk about all of this frankly and honestly as we never had an opportunity to do so with Marston always hiding behind your bedroom door.    It’s really strange to say this Ruby but I really don’t know who you are,  and you do not really know me at all.  If you have not done so then read my open letters to you.

They were written from my heart.
I realize that at this time my message is probably falling on deaf ears.
The important thing is that you know that you can contact me concerning Rex.
I will just add that this experience has had a profound effect on me.  I have revaluated my entire life and know that LOVE is the highest state of being.

The Turtle and the Scorpion
A turtle was happily swimming along a river when a scorpion hailed it from the shore.
“Dear friend turtle!” called the scorpion. “Please let me climb upon your back and swim me to the other side of the river!”
“No,” replied the turtle, “for if I do, you shall sting me, and I shall die.”
“Nonsense!” replied the scorpion. “If I kill you in the middle of the river, you shall sink, and I shall drown and die with you.”
The turtle thought this over, and saw the truth of the scorpion’s statement. He let it upon his back and began swimming towards the other side of the river. Halfway across, he felt a sharp pain in the back of his neck.
“Why have you stung me?!” cried the turtle as his body began to stiffen. “Now you shall die as well!”
“Because it is in my nature,” replied the scorpion as the turtle sank beneath the waters.

p.s.   To all concerned - at this time I am not checking comments on this blog.  I will do so once before turning off this blog at the end of the month.
p.p.s.  just to let you know I will not ever view your site again or respond to anything else you say (becuase I simply will not be aware of it).  I have already passed your website address to the Federal Agent I am dealing wtih in the Australian Federal Police.   I invite you to contact them also.

Evan Iliadis Full Rebuttal of ridiculous accusations against me

Thursday, April 2nd, 2009

This saga is taking on Jerry Springer proportions

Marston claims I run an international child pornography network and that I actually produce pictures and movies of young boys and girls which I sell online.  This is a total fabrication and one I find particularly offensive. He went on to say that if I ‘had my infant son I would take pictures of him and sell them online’ 1 .
If these allegations had any credible basis they would have been subject to a real police investigation long ago as Marston has been peddling such stories for more than six months to anyone he thinks would listen including professional bodies like the International Justice Mission2.  

I was always wondering what false evidence or fabrications he might be cooking up against me.   Now that they are out I am relieved to see what a load of easily refuted rubbish they are.
Marston claimed he did not have a chance to defend himself or present his allegations.  I reproduced ALL his previous allegations in his own words on this blog under “Allegations against Me”.   I have long urged Marston and the other false personas he has used to go directly to the police if they have any proof.  Instead he has now found Illiades.

For the sake of those who are associated with me and who do not deserve to be maligned by people such as Marston or Iliades because of this, I will respond to the allegations and libellous statements made about me on his already highly discredited webiste.
Marston and Evan Iliadis has now published his alleged evidence to support his allegations, including references to websites he claims are mine and an image of a Filipino girl in a school uniform who according to according to Marston and Illiades is under 15 years of age. The owner of the picture is who run the following porn sites:

School Girls Asia,  LBFM, Sexy Asian Ladyboys, Asian Gay Teens and others.
I contacted the site owner and requested the ‘custodian of records’ for the girl in question.  For those that don’t understand under American law 2257 all legal porn sites must maintain records of their models with photographic proof that they are at least 18 years of age.

Christopher Bennetts wanted replyI have done some checking. Simple checking that Evan Iliadis could quite easily have done himself prior to publishing the false and sensational allegations if his motive was to seek the truth.

THIS IS NOT MY PICTURE AND I HAVE NEVER EVEN MET THIS GIRL. This is the picture of the so called under 15 year old he claims is mine
He is a closer picture of the girl Marston and Illiades claims is mine shows she is not even underage - but if they want to check the contact with her ID showing she is over 18 is below
Most people would recognise that she is much older than 14 and to me looks about 20 years old

 Christopher Bennetts wanted reply
The owner responded with the contact details of the custodian of records for this girl was from a studio called ‘Content 2 Die 4′ run by a guy called Jimmy Carter Jr.   This is the information that the owner of the content is required to keep by law and make available to authorities upon official request.
Jimmy Carter Jr.
B.1 L. 10 San Rafael Classic Homes
Blk. 14 Lot 5 Brosas St. BF Resort Village
las Pinas City
Prostock at Content2die4
232 holly road
Los Angeles, California
The owner also pointed me to this page where you can see the girl 4 next to many other so called school girls.  On this page they give her the name Elly and an age of 18 which more than likely is false.  It would be my guess she is probably closer to 20 and like the other girls featured on the site probably has not seen the inside of a classroom for many years.  The pictures are of adult girls dressed up in school uniforms to appeal to the customers who are biased toward such material.
The next question is why they have tried to link me to this girl and website in the first place. 

I have been running a web hosting business for many years.  I host only legal website for clients and leave the definition of legal up to US law where the majority of my hosting data centers are located.  Some of my clients do have adult sites and as long as these comply with US law I host them.  Each and every site is operated within the legal requirements that are in force for US citizens and websites; even though I am neither a US Citizen or personally subject to US Laws. I comply with these regulations because it is both ethically appropriate and positive for business.

This is the case with the sties referred to on Illiades’ website, they all comply completely with US Laws.   I have been trying to think how these specific sites came to the attention of Marston and seem to recall troubleshooting a hosting issue with the ‘LBFM’ site while at the apartment of Ruby using the computer I gave her.   I think I backed up the site to the local disk before making some change and Marston would have found a back up directory with the domain names as part of the file name.

For those not familiar with the concept of hosting it’s like being the owner of an office block and having tenants.  You are not involved in the tenant’s business activities and your only concern is that they conduct legal businesses in a legal fashion 5  and pay their rent on time. 

A great deal is being made by Marston and Illiades of a photograph of a bikini clad girl on a site called . I am asked by Illiades if it is my site as I am listed as the registrant.   It is one of maybe 30 such domains related to living in the Philippines I purchased with a partner for a future project.  I purchased in advance because of the Google sandbox6 and currently it contains promotion for an eBook on living and working in the Philippines. 

I am responsible for the content of that page including the placement of the bikini girl picture.
I invite people to view the site and see the picture in context of the entire site and the book being promoted which presents an honest warts and all view for foreigners thinking of moving to the Philippines.  I try to encourage them to evaluate their real motives and look beyond whatever romantic view they might have.  Neither the site nor the eBook promotes the Philippines for sex tourism and is not intended to present a derogatory image of the Philippines.

Please note that the Domain register for is Melbourne IT.   In another part of his site Illiades says that “all” my domains are registered with “Wild West Domains which is GODADDY web hosting company” yet here is one that his own site clearly shows is not. What other errors of fact does his website contain?
Illiades also has questions about the website I built and maintain for the Rotary Club of Central Mactan.    He describes it as a “foul flash featured presentation”.  My son created that animation at no charge to the club and most people have complimented him on it.  What is a measure of a good site design Iliades …your site?   To answer your question, NO, I do not charge fees and maintenance costs for the site.    

Evan Iliadis also asks why the Rotary domain  has “private registration” which he describes as “meaning under bogus information and names”.  This is a totally inaccurate description of private registration.  With private registration the actual registration details do not change but the view to the public is restricted.  Anybody with authority can request to view the actual domain registration records.  

Private registration is about privacy.  The general public cannot view your address details or get your phone number.  In particular your email address is private to stop spammers.  I now prefer to use Private Registration for all domain registrations I make or, as a domain name reseller, are responsible for.  If I am responsible for renewing a domain I will also add private registration.
Iliad's also asks about a domain called ‘’.  

This domain is also owned by a client of mine for whom I provide hosting and registration services.  He claims that “you have been alerted by the frequent visits of my IP, you smelled the rat again and you put it under private registration”.  I do not have anything to do with monitoring visits to that site, I did not know you or that you were looking into anything and I have no idea what is your IP address, even now. If you look again at when the domain registration record was last updated and became private you will see it corresponds exactly to when the domain was up for renewal.  Perhaps a little paranoia is creeping in?

As I have already explained I enable Private Registration for any domain I have the responsibility for renewing and yes, I renewed that domain for my client.  I was surprised to see on your site that the domain has my details.  I did not notice this when I renewed it in a batch with many others.   

This registration originates back to the Registerfly domain registration company which ICANN deregistered a few years ago because of consumer complaints about their record keeping.  I lost domains belonging to clients because their system would not let me renew them7 and many of my domain records became corrupted.  It was a nightmare.   

When they were de-registered I moved about 500 domains over to my enom account and I later transferred many of these to Godaddy.com8 . There were a few hundred domains with corrupt and often missing registration details 9 and the domain mentioned was one of them and got my account details by default.  I manually corrected most of these but there are still maybe a hundred I have not got around to fixing yet.  

These are clients that trust me or otherwise leave the domain registration and renewal completely in my hands.  After this experience I will be updating this registration information immediately and not waiting for the renewals to fall due.
With regard to the posts on Paul’s ‘Living In Cebu’ blog.  As I stated already I reproduced all of Marstons’ accusations in his own words on a page here and then I asked Paul to take it offline,10 which he did.  

When I spoke to Paul after discovering Illiades’s blog he first asked me if I had asked him to put it back online as he could not recall.  I said no and if he had not done it then someone he has given administrative authority on his site has done so.   He asked me what I wanted to do.  

 I thought about it for a minute and said take it off line again.  He has done so and has now moved it to the admin area where only he has authority so whoever re-enabled it last time cannot re-enable it again.  Illiades has an online copy of all the posts on your site so there should be no complaints about it being taken offline again.

You also claim that Paul can see and monitor people’s private messages on the forum “Members of this forum beware! you do not have any privacy or confidentiality using your private mail box in the forum. Paul can see what’s inside edit it as fit and use any information he can find there.”   I have spoken to Paul and this is not the case but you do not need to take Paul’s word for it.  Visit the Invision Power Board site and research the security features and you will be able to confirm that this is another inaccurate, even false claim by Illiades.

I believe I have responded and refuted all of the accusations and questions on Evan Iliadis’ site.
Illiadis talks about future posts and holding back more information waiting for my initial response.  Well Illiadis I am sorry to inform you that you had just one shot at it.  I am not interested in playing this silly game and this is the finish of this matter as far as I am concerned.

You have called me a criminal on your site but I have shown that there is no foundation in any of the accusations, some of which at best are circumstantial with most being outright false.
You have also suggested that I am lying about the legal status of Marston who is a wanted criminal with outstanding arrest warrants.  I have provided the reference numbers and concerned jurisdiction for the offences so these can be checked and verified.

This saga is taking on Jerry Springer proportions and frankly it’s a total waste of my very valuable time.  It stops here.   They  can post whatever follow up they like on their already totally discredited website but there will be no further comment from me.   I will not play their game    IT’S OVER!  
Illiades will be happy to know that I have informed the Governor of my intention to resign both as President of the Rotary Club of Central Mactan and as a Rotarian.  I will post my resignation letter with explanation letter here soon.

I  also give notice of my intention to take this site offline at the end of this month.
ps  Illiades, heed my advise to you that it’s time to let go and also that you should choose your battles wisely
  1. can any father imagine someone saying anything sicker than that? []
  2. found out about this back in December []
  3. the page is G rated as long as you don’t click any of the pictures []
  4. 3 rows down far left []
  5. In all the years I have been hosting I have removed only one site for legally questionable content. []
  6. Google will give higher rankings to older sites []
  7. wish I knew this back then    []
  8. transferred in batch as they came up for renewal as its cheaper []
  9. search the net for “corrupt registration registerfly” and you will see many references like this and   []
  10. on the advice of my attorney []

Evan Iliadis Attacks Rotary Via Me!

Tuesday, March 31st, 2009
I received an email last night informing me that a person has set up a site attacking me using information provided by Marston.   These are the same false allegations Marston has made against me and I have published on this site.  What is new is that this website has the “proof” Marston always claimed to have yet like him, fails to actually produce.

The instigator  is Evan Iliadis, a person who was kicked out of Rotary some time ago and ever since has made it his life’s mission to attack the Rotary Village Aid program and Rotary District 3660, of which I am the current president.
Evan Iliadis claims to have brought these allegations to the attention of the Governor and has not received a response.  I can report that I have not been contacted or questioned by the Governor or any other Rotarian about these allegations.   I think the bottom line is they do not take them seriously.

When you read Evan Iliadis’ website, which I will link to once I have completed my response to the allegations, you would think it is a moral crusade against me.  I will be able to show that his only motivation for this site is to attack Rotary.   I have not received any communication or questions from Iliadis, not even notification of the existence of the site and its allegations.  It appears Iliadis does not really want a response from me but will get a response regardless.

Evan Iliadis’ website has been attacking everything Rotary for some time with allegations of corruption and mismanagement.  Like this attack on me, the previous attacks on Rotary contain false information, gross distortions and fantasy.  This is why the Governor and Rotary do not take it seriously.

I am inclined to do the same as the Governor and Rotary and ignore him, but I will not.  Out of respect for Rotary and in consideration that some people might believe the rubbish posted on the site I will respond to the allegations in full.
I will first state that I am NOT the owner of the websites and pictures listed on his site and have sent a communication to the owner of the pornographic website requesting information about the picture of the young looking girl.   Under the law the website owner is required to provide details of the custodian or records for the owner of the image.   The identified owner of the images can be requested to provide proof of identity and age.

If this custodian is not provided then the matter can and should be immediately referred to the FBI for investigation and you would have my full cooperation in doing so.  I will add that the domain is hosted in the US and therefore comes under US jurisdiction.  The website owner is a long term client of mine and I do not anticipate any problem or delay in his providing me with details of the custodian. When I have this information I will provide a full response to all the allegations and false claims made on the website of Evan Iliadis.
Message to Iliadis

You don’t know me and you have attacked me based on circumstantial information I will easily refute along with many of your other allegations.   This website is written from my heart.  I think compassionate human beings that read it will recognise the truth and sincerity.  I am not ashamed of my humanity and expressing my feelings as I have here.
You will notice that I have not updated this site for some time.  This is because I am now getting on with my life.  I have not forgotten nor will I give up on Rex but for the time being there is nothing I can do and I have other people in my life to take care of.

This website was never made to gain sympathy from Rotary or the expat community.  It was made to document events for concerned organizations including IJM, PNP and AFP.  It was also my last attempt to try to communicate with Ruby who is controlled by Marston with the aid of drugs. Lastly it was therapeutic on my part.

For your information I left the Philippines some time ago and have no interest in returning other than concerning Rex.  I am happy again for the first time in many months and I don’t want to be here on this site responding to this chapter of my life I have closed.  I am more focused on positive things.  Here is another site for you to do some detective work on - it is mine. (site is now closed)
ps  With regard to resignation from Rotary I have offered this in the past when I could no longer perform my role due to the plan by Marston to have me murdered.    

I will provide the Governor owith absolute proof of this plan to murder me and he will be able to assure other Rotarians that the threat is very real.  The resignation offer is still there if my club or the district request it.

Ruby part of plan to kill me
Monday, March 9th, 2009

There have been more SMS mesages from Ruby to Vanessa.  First she asks why I have blacked out the face of Vanessa in the pics of her holding Rex.
gayon alam ko na kong. sino kang nag txt2x. sa akin ikaw pala si vanessa ganong wala mo ipakita, ang imong nawong gahalok ka
There was no need to answer that question. A message a bit later gives the answer loud and clear
magbatay lang mo doha ni chris? kay gebaharan na saya ni dean gapatyon, maukiw dai batay lang ka nako at ayaw nag txt naho??
Here I am told Ruby says that when the guys find us they will kill us together.
Well now I know.

Before I did not know if Ruby really knew of the plan to kill me. This confirms she is a co-conspiritor.
Ruby is a very bad person - worse than I ever imagined.  She truly belongs with Marston.
The part that really gives me pain is that Rex might learn one day that his mother was part of a plan to kill his father. No child should have to live with that.
I will take Rex away from her and jail will be the best place for her along with her sick criminal boyfriend.

I am sure some reading this think this is all drama. That I might be overracting. I have even herd someone say I have lost the plot.
I can only say at this time that its all very real and I am constrained on what I can say on direct police advise. One day it might all come out.
Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Vanessa will help me care for Rex

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009
Vanessa told me that as soon as she first saw Rex she loved him. She has helped me look after half a dozen times when I have had secret access. Vanessa will help me take care of Rex when I get custody.Rex just spilt his drink grabbing for it and looks a bit surprised

 Christopher Bennetts wanted replyVanessa and Rex at McDonalds. As far as Ruby knows I got to see Rex only two times after the so called support agreement. After that she demanded I ask the permission of Marston if I wanted to see my son. I secretly continued to see Rex up until the time she disappeared with Marston to Negros without warning.

Ruby really has no idea how much we got to see Rex because most of the time she was off with Marston taking shabu staying away for up to 48 hours at a time. Her friend that she abandoned Rex with for extended periods was willing to let me see my son and also did not like Marston at all.

Rex with his brothers

Tuesday, March 3rd, 2009
Rex has four brothers waiting for him in Australia. They keep asking me when I can bring him home.These pictures were taken shortly before my sons left the Philippines to return to study in Australia. (Where is the fourth?)

 Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Christopher Bennetts wanted reply
Thinking back it seems that every time we went out Ruby was always unhappy and almost keen for it to be over. She always had nasty sarcastic comments and seemed ready to pick a fight.

Perhaps she could not wait to get back to her Din Din Ortin and take some Shabu together.

Michael Effelberger President Outsider MC & owner MB’s Tavern Mactan

 Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Sunday, March 1st, 2009
I have not received a direct response from Michael Effelberger to my Open letter but I have been advised that upon reading it again he declared WAR1 on the Rotary Club.
Yes amazing as it may sound according to two witnesses at the Heidelberg Hotel on the night of the incident at MB’s Tavern Michael was there drunk and going on and on about myself and Rotary saying he would “bash” every Rotarian on the island of Mactan. I did not include this information in my open letter as I gave him the benefit of the doubt for it being some drunken nonsense. According to Daniel Miller and others he is in a perpetual state of drunkenness anyway.

I heard that  he again declared war on Rotary after reading my open letter and two members of the Outsiders took pictures of members of the Rotary club of Mactan and assaulted one.  Members of the Rotary club of Central Mactan later had a communication with Michael where he withdrew (or denied) his issue with Rotary now saying he only has an issue with me because I insulted and threatened his wife.

Christopher Bennetts wanted replyThe fact is that I have never directly spoke to his wife - not even on the night in question. It’s funny that Michael claims to be so concerned about an insult to his wife Marlene because he bad mouths her more than anyone and “does not have much time for her” quote from the Peace Maker.

Michael is the owner of MB's Tavern on Mactan I have now learnt a lot more about this Michael and realize I am not dealing with a normal intelligent person. I have received five private messages in addition to Daniels public comments and it seems he has a lot of enemies but most are scared to make any open comments.

Michael Outsiders President

I believe this is a more recent picture of Michael 
I was told by the so called Peace Maker2 that he was well respected. I now conclude that the peace maker was confusing respect with fear.
I had been willing to give him the benefit of the doubt but now I know he is not a man of honour. He is just a moron. Or perhaps his serious motorcycle accident of a couple of years ago where he lost an eye caused some brain damage.

Michael will come to realize that the most unfortunate day of his life was when he met Dean Boyd Marston and the biggest mistake of his life was when he decided to befriend and protect this criminal.
 Christopher Bennetts wanted replyIt seems they have a lot in common. Both are 24 hour drunks, both apparently like young girls and both are probably psychopaths (I am sure about Marston but I have not met Michael so can only go on the opinion of others).

There are also claims that Michael is involved in drugs. I have heard this MYSELF DIRECTLY FROM THE PDEA in addition to other sources. So that would be another thing that Marston and Michael would have in common.
I know the code of the Outsiders requires that they all band together and support him but I would suggest to any thinking member that they evaluate their ongoing support for this guy.

The spot light is turning on Michael and his activities and this has the potential to bring the outsiders into serious disrepute.
If Michael had been a man of his word when he told me the issue was over when I apologized without qualification for the event at MB’s then this would all be over already. He also had a chance to finish the matter by responding to my Open letter in a way that assured me he had no ill intentions towards me. His response has been to declare a personal war on me.

I know Michael believes killing me will put an end to this but be assured it would be the end of the Outsiders on Mactan if something happened to me. If Michael really is a psychopath then this threat will not stop him but I suggest any other member think about where he is currently taking the group.
I have also done some Googling on the net about Michael and here are two interesting items I found on World Sex Guide.
Mactan Travel Report Dated Added: Sun Mar 05 2006
If you are like me and love the Philippines make sure you are going to Mactan Island in Cebu Philippines. The girls there are likeing to fuck a lot and it is easy to find them for little money. Stay away from a place called MB’s Tavern. It is full of a gang called The Outsiders. They ride motorcycles and try very hard to act bad, but they are a bunch of pussys who have to band together to feel safe. Mostly they are Norwegian and Germans. 

They are over the hill-old men trying to be like young Marlon Brando, but they only succeed in buying pussy, Which anyone can do in the Philippines. They are comical wearing leather vests with “outsiders” written on the back like someone from an old comic book! Ha! They are a bunch of loosers and are infecting the girls at MB’s Tavern with drippy dick. Two of my friends got drippy dick picking up girls at that MB’s. The president of the outsiders club is a German Named Michael who brags that he has had drippy dick so many times that his doctor warned him that he was immune to most of the vaccines that cure it! This man is so stupid he tells this story out loud to virtually every one he meets! Very Stupid Man.
Lapu Lapu Escort Review Dated Added: Thu May 06 2004
MB’s Tavern is another great place to get pussy. Mikel, the owner has a small hotel located directly on the college campus and he has a 3 ring-binder with willing college students listed inside. Prices depend on the girls, runs about 1500 for an all night bang, and Mikel gets 500 for the room. But don’t eat at the Tavern! I had the shits for 5 days. If you get the runs, there’s a pill you can buy at the pharmacy called Immodium. It works. It’s hard to fuck when you have to run to the toilet between strokes.
There is a lot more to come about Michael Effelberger President of the Outsiders MC and the owner of MB’s Tavern on Mactan
  1. War is a word that apparantly Michael likes to use []
  2. person known to myself and Michael []

Ruby and her life of lies

Friday, February 27th, 2009
The last time I saw Ruby she denied being a Shabu addict. Not surprising as drug addicts will almost never admit that they even take drugs.
When we first got together she did admit to me that she had tried Shabu once long ago. It turns out that once was around the same time I started dating her.To remind her here are her two friends you first tried Shabu with

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More will come out when we go to court for custody.
I also asked her how she supported herself when we first met. At first she said an allowance from her father but later the story changed to an online chat mate who wanted to marry her. As I understand it now she was still doing tricks hanging out at Nasa Disco. I really don’t know if the chat mate even existed.
Before me there had been a succession of other foreign guys.

Then there are the macho dancers that lived in the same apartment block. They are Filipino guys that dance at a gay bar in Mactan called Tarzan boy. They prostitute themselves to men and to older women and Korean women on holiday.
Ruby admitted that she had once dated a Macho dancer but said it was not any of the Macho dancers at the apartment. I now know different.

Ruby is a very good liar. In fact I am starting to think that she and Marston are made for each other. He has always preferred whores.
I know that Ruby is aware of Marstons interest in young girls. They have already had fights about him taking too much interest in young girls while they have been together. One incident I heard about was at your Aunties store in the Market.

Petition for Custody of Rex

Thursday, February 26th, 2009
 Christopher Bennetts wanted reply

Petition for Custody or Rex
When I returned to Australia in mid December 2008 I was an emotional wreck. The time spent with my family enabled me to put things back into perspective and I remember January 17 as being a turning point when I again took control of my life.

I returned to the Philippines and have been on a fact finding mission since.
The truth can be a hard pill to swallow but I now realized that Ruby was just a gold digger from the start and never loved me. I have learnt how she was a high class pick up girl at Nasa disco. How she was having a relationship with a Macho dancer from the Tarzan Boy Gay Bar while I was courting her1 . How it was always about money and things for her. She was always demanding from the beginning and I just accepted that.

When Ruby first got pregnant she was adamant that she wanted an abortion. I had to really convince her not to promising I would support her and the child. I promise I never shied away from. In hindsight it would have been better to have allowed her to but Rex was a child made with love - at least for me.

Perhaps the most hurtful thing I hear from Ruby now is that she claims I did not support her and Rex. That she can lie about something like this amazes me. It is almost laughable to anyone that knows us and I have so much proof of my support commencing when she first found out she was pregnant and only stopping when she ranoff with Marston denying me any access to Rex.

When I returned to the Philippines I decided I had to give her one last chance to continue to be the mother of Rex. I tried to offer her a way out of this mess in two open letters in which I poured out my heart. I doubt she has even read them or much of this site. Her response is to say that I am just making up stories and its all bullshit. At least I know I tried and I can sleep more soundly with that knowledge.
I now realize that Ruby it a totally unfit mother and I must now rescue Rex and bring him to Australia. In December my Attorney prepared a case for Custody of Rex and I have held back on lodging it until now. So it’s time to lodge this petition and go to court. Ruby will lose Rex and she has no one else but herself to blame
  1. this also explained the used condom wrappers in her room she claimed belonged to a friend []

Ruby responds to my Open Letter

Sunday, February 22nd, 2009
I got an indirect answer to my open letter to Ruby. For the past couple of months on and off Ruby has been contacting a girl I know called Vanessa and trying to cause a problem between us. Her tactics have included telling her that she is my girl friend and that we are meeting in Manila or Palawan and a lot of other lies.
I had instructed Vanessa to ignore these txt messages in the past but now it is Vanessa who has sending messages to Ruby and got a response.

The first few messages from Ruby just say I am a shit guy and how much she loves Marston. A little later she sent a long message in Olongo which is her native dialect as she comes from Victorias in Negros.
Vanessa does not understand Olongo and so far I have only have a basic translation which seems to be the same bullshit she is always saying.

Here is her txt to Vanessa:
himohimo rasija sitorya ganto kay den gansya man ang mahilig sa babae himolos man sya ug 14 15 16 17 iya himoslan ikaw dai pilay imong idan aghimoslan ka ni chris?? indai sinkaw gatxt dako siman imo galan uyab kaw ni chris geatay manasya walakabalo gagebahan manasya gapatyon ni daen gagomansya tao ikaw lipay ba saija gadahan manasya babaeing gepahimoslan ugnaga mandosan palakiro sya wawakalang dai kay ako lipay gonko daen butan managon daen ganko higoma mankonya kaw higoma chris luykadai kayatay manasya layonyan saimo wawaka? Cge matolog na me ni daen dinami txt imo.
I will update this with an accurate translation1 when I get one but Ruby is repeating Marstons false allegations of my involvement with underage girls, she also asks Vanessa how old she is and ask her if she is happy with me because I have so many girls and saying I lie to her all the time.  Well to answer the question of Ruby 

Vanessa is 18 years old.
she said you like girls age 14, 15, 16,17 u just want sex with them she saidshe said to the girl who text her that u are just using another girl just to make her jealous she says also to the girl how old she is that u used her she said if i were u girl just leave him because he is a playboy after he gets what he want he will just leave you not like with daen he love me so much and i m so happy with him she said if i were u girl just leave him because he is a play boy after he gets what he want he will just leave am to you not like with daen he love me so much and i m so happy with him
and last she said i will go to sleep and dont disturb us again bec. i will not reply you

Amazing stuff.  Everything here on this blog contradicts and refutes what Ruby says.  she is such a lier.
I doubt if Ruby has even read my open letter to her which I laboured over for hours pouring out my heart. She is able to dismiss it in a few seconds.
I really have to conclude that she has never loved me and was just using me. She is a party girl and loves wild sex and drugs. I was just too conservative and boring for her.
  1. I received a summary by txt message []